Claire Bear Comes to Little Rock

It’s a three-day weekend and we invited Mandy’s cousin Claire, who is from rural Oklahoma, to come visit.  Mandy and I drove to Clarksville Friday night to meet Aunt Julie at Wendy’s, and we brought Claire home with us.

We had a great time showing Claire around Little Rock.  She watched several bike polo games, and was a good sport about trying it herself.


Mandy’s new polo bike is an old-school Specialized Rockhopper.  It’s not really set up for polo yet, so after the games we drove out to Pinnacle Mountain for a quick spin around one of the beginner mountain bike trails.  Claire thought mountain biking was pretty cool.

Bryan rode his polo bike, and since the trail isn’t very hilly he wasn’t much bothered by having only one gear.  Mandy was on her offroad unicycle.  Somehow, at dusk, she managed to get lost by herself on the trail.  We split up to look for her, and she was found without incident.

Later, despite the chilly day and the threat of rain, we hiked up Pinnacle Mountain.  Claire confided that, actually, she’d never been hiking before.  She was a little nervous about climbing the rather steep, exposed ‘spine’, just before the top, but Mandy talked her through it.  It’s fun to watch people stretch their boundaries and try new things.

I think Claire pushed back a lot of her boundaries over the weekend.  We went out for regular American kid pizza one night, but another night we had supper at a good Middle Eastern place.  We shared everything across the table, so Claire got to try lots of new spices.  She likes hummus but not baba ghannouj.  She wasn’t wild about the taziki sauce, but thought the spicy fish was yummy.

And she said she walked more during her visit than she’d ever walked before in her life.

As a special surprise, I’d made arrangements with our friends Britt and Debbie to take Claire on a behind-the-gates trip to the zoo.  The first order of business on Monday morning was to go for a walk with Mary and Ellen, the zoo’s two elephants.

The Little Rock zoo is one of only a small handful of zoos in the country who let their elephants walk around the whole zoo every morning before it opens to the public.  It’s good exercise for the animals physically, and it’s an interesting part of their lives.  And it gives kids like Claire and Mandy an occasional opportunity to do something really, really cool.

When we’d finished with our walk, we got to visit the big cats.  The weather was icky outside so most of them were still in their ‘dens’ and we got to say hello.  Since lions are Claire’s favorite thing, this was a big deal – she even got to touch one of the lions’ fur through the cage.  She loved having Debbie there to answer questions.  She’d always wondered if big cats purr, and know she knows the answer.

We got to see the bears, too.  We had to be quiet in the ‘bear house’ because the grizzlies are hibernating.  But Claire and Mandy fed the otters and sun bears.  Thor, the big male sloth bear, was his usual charming self, sucking cheerios off our hands and through his door.  Sasha, the other sloth bear, was less agreeable.  When she saw Mandy, she backed up and rushed the door, slamming against it and flinging spit all over Mandy’s jacket.  When we walked by again, she did the same thing.  Apparently Sasha doesn’t like plaid hats.

Before taking Claire back to meet up with her mom again, we stopped by the Big Dam Bridge for a walk across, and to just sit and look out at the water for awhile.  We so enjoyed having Claire nearby for a few days.

Snow Day!

Snow Day #1-

It’s a snow day!  The snow began to fall in the middle of Sunday afternoon, and by dark we had six or eight inches of white powder.  I tried to take a silent bedtime walk in the quiet blanket of snow, but instead my walk because a sort of proving ground, a laughing kinetic experiment.  Yes, they CAN ride polo bikes and municycles in the snow. Continue reading “Snow Day!”

I Heart Hydrocodone

I used to have great teeth.  And then they absolutely went to shit.  (This happened around the time Mandy was born, so I’ve always blamed pregnancy and nursing.  I’m not sure if this has any foundation in fact, or if it’s just imaginative fault-finding.)

I kept up with dental work for awhile.  But then there were the single-mommy-with-no-dental-insurance years, and it just wasn’t possible to take care of everything.

So, now that I have good insurance, I’ve been working on getting my teeth fixed.  Last year, we did lots of cleaning and filling and a ridiculously complicated root canal.  This year’s big project is to remove teeth that can’t be saved.  Friday, I went to the oral surgeon and had four baddies cut out.

Goals for 2010, Goals for 2011

We don’t really do New Years’ Resolutions at our house – we’re just as likely to begin an exercise program in March, or set goals to be more organized in August, or try to eat better in October.

One thing we have been doing, though, is to set some specific goals for biking and hiking and ‘bag nights’ – nights spent in sleeping bags – for each year.  This means that these goals are specific numbers to work toward rather than a soft idea (camp and ride more).

You can click on the graphic below to see how we did in 2010.  Go ahead, your eyes aren’t good enough to read that tiny print.


For 2011 we’ve adjusted these goals a little:

  • Bag Nights: 15 for each of us
  • Hiking/Backpacking Miles: 100 for each of us
  • Biking Miles: 1000 for Bryan, 500 for Aly and 350 for Mandy

Here are some other outdoors / exercise-related goals for this year:

  • Bryan and Mandy are talking about completing a “Couch-to-5k” running program sometime this year.
  • Aly’s going to try to get back into the habit of going to the gym 3 or 4 times a week.
  • As a family we’d like to take a week-long bike tour this year, which means working up to riding 50+ miles several days in a row.
  • Bryan can ride a few yards on the unicycle, but he’d like to get better.  Mandy has plans to ride a mountain biking trail, learn to jump at least six inches vertically and some other uni-related tricks
  • Aly and Bryan have talked about completing a century (100 mile) bike ride this year.  We’ve both ridden Metric Centuries (62 miles) before.
  • Regarding bike riding, Bryan would like to have zero weeks with zero miles this year.
  • Bryan would also like to commute to/from work 10 days this year, that’s about 260 miles total.

And in the spirit of reaching those 2011 goals, Bryan and Mandy rode 34 miles on Saturday with our friend Kathy and seven other Arkansas Bicycle Club members. The temperature that morning was in the high 30’s and would wind up in the mid-40’s. (The down vest Mandy is wearing came off after the first couple of miles.)

Christmas 2011

We had a good Christmas weekend at our house.  We slept late several days in a row, and we ate Chinese food at two different restaurants.  We went on a long bike ride with a friend.  It’s true that there were lots of presents – we worked together to choose and send gifts to family and friends, and when Mandy got home from her trip to Tulsa, we took turns opening gifts from other family members and friends, and gifts for us from each other.

At our house, Christmas isn’t a religious holiday.  And while we do like presents, we try hard not to focus on them.   We celebrate Christmas by taking the time to stop everything else we’re doing and be with the people we love.  We drink eggnog together and we lay in a pile on the couch, reading, for hours and hours, because it is Christmas, and because these are the people we care most about in the world, and because what we want is to be here, with them, in this warm house, always.

Tree Killers

Once again our family drove out to the Bradbury Christmas Tree Farm (9427 Donna Lane, Mabelvale, AR) and cut down a live tree.  Mandy and I really like fresh trees so we haven’t fallen prey to the fake tree craze that everyone else seems to buy into.


This year we DID get a wreath, though, and trimmed it to match the tree. We hung our stockings over the fireplace (and the cats’ stockings over the litterbox.) We carefully set the cards from friends on the mantel, where they fall down every time we walk past.  And now, we’re ready for the holidays!

Thanksgiving in New Orleans

We always go to New Orleans for Thanksgiving.

We enjoyed the lunch on Thursday with family and friends, and after lunch Bryan’s grandma Schambach and I went for a walk all the way to West Esplanade, trailing Mandy on her unicycle.  That afternoon, we had a quintuple birthday party with presents and cake for Mandy, Aunt Dot, Juliana, Aunt Julie, and JD. (Emma blew out the candles.)  Then we went to Bryan’s Aunt Lynn’s house for Thanksgiving supper with his mom’s side of the family.


It rained most of the day Friday.  On Saturday morning, we went on a bike ride on the trail along Lake Ponchartrain.  (The trail is closed, which we handled by just yelling “Over there!” at the policeman who tried to talk to us, and continuing to ride.)  We rode across the 17th Street Canal to the site of the break that caused so much damage after Hurricane Katrina.  The repair in the floodwall is clearly visible, and it’s obvious that a lot of homes that used to be in this neighborhood are gone now.  The houses that have been repaired or rebuilt are on tall footings.

Late on Saturday afternoon, we got together with Bryan’s brother Michael and his girlfriend Juliana at City Park.  We didn’t have a lot of time before dark, but we used the light that was left for some portraits.

My favorite shot was really an afterthought.  The light was gone, we’d finished with what we wanted, and we were headed back to the cars when I saw a warm yellow wall, the outside of the old casino.  Juliana sat in an opening in the brick wall, with Michael behind her.  We wanted his face next to hers, but it just didn’t work out that way, so Bryan just shot what he saw, and serendipity gave us the best portrait of the evening.

Later, we came back to City Park for Celebration in the Oaks.  Beginning each Thanksgiving, an area of the park is lit up with holiday lights and carnival rides.  One of my favorite things to watch is the restored carousel, with carved wooden horses and brilliant lights and cheerful families bundled up for the evening.


Bryan’s mom, Mandy, Julie, and little Emma rode the train around the park.  While they were busy, Bryan and I wandered through the park, taking photos.

The park was crowded, but we were able to find quiet moments.

It’s a big place, with lots of lights that almost but not quite totally don’t go together, a sort of cacophony of Christmas lighting.

Storyland is an area of the park set aside for little ones.  It’s got lots of scenes from children’s books and stories, as big as life, and only slightly creepy.  When the train ride was finished, we met up at Storyland to watch Emma play.


Emma’s a big fan of slides, but her favorite spot at Storyland seems to be the pirate ship.

We didn’t leave New Orleans until mid-afternoon on Sunday, so the drive home was one of our traditional late-nighters. But the extra time spent visiting with Aunt Dot and buying a supply of andouille and beer at Dorignac’s is always worth the midnight drive home.

Mandy Goes to Camp

Through the geology instructor I had last fall, we found out about the Halberg Ecology Camp, a week-long program for middle school kids, run by Audubon Arkansas. Mandy had to apply for the camp, which included recommendations from teachers and an essay. But she was accepted! (And I had to send a big fat check, also.)

This was her first ‘sleep away camp’ but as predicted she didn’t miss us at all–she had a wonderful time. She spent a week in the heat of summer outside, and sleeping in a forest service cabin without air-conditioning. She spent a week with a group of kids who also like to be outside, and who like to learn about science and nature. Best of all, I think, she got to spend a week in science classes taught by high-school and college science teachers. The kids learned about mammology and herpetology and geology, got to spend time in canoes, and ate good food.

She came back tired, happy, and using big words. A handful of this year’s campers get to return next summer for a ‘senior camp’. Mandy’s looking forward to finding out if she made the cut.

UPDATE 11/15/10 –
I got an email today from the director of the Halberg camps. Mandy has been invited back for “senior camp” next year, and so has her favorite other camper, Inge. Hooray!